Finally Trauma-free

We are not broken needing to be fixed, we are wounded needing to be healed.

Beyond Talk Therapy

As a therapist, I deeply believe that I can guide my clients only as far as I have journeyed myself. This principle has shaped my commitment to offering treatment approaches that I have personally experienced, tested, and trust. In all my seventeen years of working with clients, I have never encountered a more transformative, life-changing evidence-based approach to healing trauma than Trauma Incident Reduction (TIR).

Experiencing TIR as a client was nothing short of revolutionary—it was the most effective treatment I’ve ever undergone. Now, as a facilitator, I am privileged to witness its profound and consistent ability to deliver life-changing results for my clients. This work transcends the limitations of traditional talk therapy, offering a pathway not just to coping and managing triggers and symptoms resulting from trauma and Complex-PTSD, but allows individuals to finally become truly trauma-free.

Addressing Trauma With TIR

Big "T" Traumas
These are significant, life-altering events such as physical or sexual abuse, childhood neglect, narcissistic abuse, sibling abuse, severe accidents, major medical procedures, domestic violence, witnessing domestic violence, violent attacks, surviving terrorism, natural disasters, combat exposure, life-threatening illnesses, or the loss of a loved one.

Little "t" Traumas
These refer to less overt but still impactful experiences such as emotional neglect, bullying, chronic stress, parental divorce, financial instability, minor medical procedures, relocating, or the loss of a pet.

Developmental Traumas
These arise from attachment injuries caused by inconsistent caregiving, emotional abuse, shaming, or unrealistic parental expectations during formative years.

Cumulative Traumas
These encompass long-term or repeated stressors such as racial or cultural discrimination, political distress, workplace harassment, chronic caregiving stress, and living in unstable or unsafe environments.

Relational Traumas
These include experiences such as divorce, breakups with romantic partners, the dissolution of friendships, unhealthy family dynamics, sibling rivalry, or invalidation from individuals in positions of power.

What clients say about TIR

  • I'm retraining myself

    Revisiting the incident helps unravel its impact. It allows me to retrain myself to think and feel something different than I did back then. As a kid, I wasn’t equipped to process what happened. It’s only now, looking back, that I can see how important it is to let myself feel it—as the child who was there. And that’s what I’m learning to do.

  • It Lost Its Power Over Me

    I feel lighter now. I realize these things I've been holding onto didn't really have anything to do with me. They may have happened to me, but they weren't because of me. I feel great. While it was uncomfortable to work through this at first, something shifted - the weight of it all just disappeared. It lost its power over me.

  • I See A Clearer Path

    Now I understand why I am where I am and I can see a clearer path to where I want to go - it's becoming less curvy, more of a straight line - instead of slaloming through all these obstacles.

  • Teaching Me To Fish

     I see why you're connected with this approach to trauma - the whole plan is to make me not dependent on therapy but help me empower myself. You're teaching me how to fish, you're not giving me fish.